Why does my narcissistic ex told me that he f*cked and sleep with other woman and then at the end says that it also happened because of me?

not to any of us. We recieved the dine n dash or hit n run and we are left picking up the pieces.

they are like a glass of champagne but after an amount of time they really are a warm beer with a cigarette butt floating in it.

You discovered the hard way that you actually invited a monster into your bed.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

they have maladaptive coping mechanisms and these were established long before you came on to the scene

the longer you pair with them …. The more damage they do and they only get worse as they age. Notice i used the word pair and not relationship? I truly believe you cannot have a relationship with a cluster b.

Why?

There was this one weird Bollywood movie that was released in the 2000s. Amitabh Bachchan was starring with another actress and the story was about how the old guy (Amitabh Bachchan) fell in love with the young woman. What is the name of this movie?

dont blame yourself or allow the narc to blame you for their bad behaviour. Their is nothing you did that made them act like this. They were broken and mesed up long before you met them. And they will go to their graves repeating clusters of toxic patterns and traits that make up their dna.

you get to see cluster b bullshittery in its reality. How a victim is groomed. How it affects family, how it destroys your trust, how sixk they can be, the lies and how they take a torch to everything around them.

you cant fix or heal them

Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?

their is no amount of couples therapy, prayer, or medication , group or 1–1 therapy that is going to turn the bus around. That ship has sailed and all you can do now is go no contact and begin your healing journey. Learn about hoovering and do what you have to do to to keep yourself safe

but here is some more truth

All narsholes control, lust, own, and ultimately they get by in life satisting their one sided selfish desires. They operate in an alternate reality where life owes them, they feel entitled to quick fixes and if its at your expense or anyone elses due to their lack of empathy and impulse control - they cannot bond and are only myopically seeing life as something to exploit

Why doesn't speeding significantly decrease one’s commute time? I've done a lot of road trips and driving and have experimented by increasing speed by 10–20%, but somehow this never equates to arriving 20% sooner, even on clear roads.

so when you uncover their true selves the cognitive dissonance is jarring. How can a person who says they love you be the very embodiment of a dc comics super villain?

go no contact. Do bot leave a crack open for them. IF he is your ex , their is a reason for that. Do not throw your pearls to a pig. You cannot allow this person near your mind or heart again no matter what he says or how you may have doubts you may feel lonely, confused. Want closure. Trust me on this

hurt people hurt people

Why has no country adopted the SA80/L85 rifle?

im sorry you had to learn like me/us that Monsters we were taught, hide in the dark and under our beds. However

they do not bond. The pairing is the result of entering into the game where the narshole has the play book, they make the rules and they always win. Its never really about your wants and needs - its about how they can get what they want and when they want it. Regardless of consequences

drugs, porn, sex, gambling, dating sites, various aliases, various emails, various facebook profiles, fighting, chaos, drama, endless hook ups, stds, hidden familes or side relationships, phoney resumes, sunstance abuse, mind games … all of this is part and parcel of how they operate.

How do you get a teenage boy to care about hygiene?

if you go back for another round itll only be worse then the first

they will never give you answers and the full closure you need. You may slip off your cracker trying to make sense of it all but do not go back to them for closure.

the truth is they will never be the person you wish they could or should be.

How can we become the best humans? How can we trust each other?

but you have all of that and more!

sadly you were manipulated and abused by the sounds of it by a very sick and sadistic person. These cluster b types - not only play with your mind but they can leave you in shambles in so many ways

sometimes just loving a narcissist is reason enough for them to devalue you

Why do people have polyamorous relationships?

i want you to research trauma bonds

so im sorry you paired with a broken man. Im sorry he failed you. Im sorry he hurt you,

now a true narc cannot handle the truth, they cant handle accountability or culpability. They project and blame shift. They thrust from a core of shame and brokeness. So hurting you is part of their pathology. They once idealized you and now they love to hate you. Does not make sense does it?

Undercover cops in New York are riding the subways with iPods on to entice robbery. Is that a form of entrapment? If not, why not?

The true story for me encapsulated all angles from the preditor to how they come into your life as these (masked) persons as your everything and when its over you realize they are con men/women… they can be dangerous on levels you cannot imagine and how underestimating them by blowing past the red flags will leave you feeling victimized, exploited and at a loss how it went so far off the rails.

Im very sorry for this experience. You are not alone. It is imperative you find a good therapist.

please get tested for std’s.

What do men like to be given for their birthday?

thats why i always tell folks i contribute my writings and answer questions to , i advise them to watch dirty john based on a true story.

since all pwnpd are on a scale, according to where they are on the scale , the higher up or the stronger their traits they are capable of not only hurtful but criminal behaviour

here is the truth. You paired with a person who wants to hurt you. He is broken and they use sex as a weapon. Sometimes they withhold sex, to punish you or they will cheat and rub it in your face. Either way they are placing and projecting their brokeness and pain and all their shame on to you

How do you take your erotic photos and how do you choose the poses?

the good news is you can move past this and hopefully educate yourself so that it doesnt happen to you again.

life has no checks and balances no guard rails, no morals, ethics, no principles for them

we met a person we wanted to share a life with and sadly they are incapable of giving you that simple joy.

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they have a disorder

and really learn to be gentle with yourself

concentrate and focus on your spiritual, emotional, mental and physical wellness now.

Why does my vagina smell sort of fishy/musty days after sex when my boyfriend ejaculates in me? There isn’t any itching or burning when urinating, so I don't think I have BV. It just doesn't smell like me.

its never easy to wrap your head around it because its not normal. Its not how you live. Its not how you love. Its not even how you would treat your toaster.

they robbed you of time and energy youll never get back but do not blame yourself or allow him to place his bad behaviours on your shoulders.